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Female Performer Chat: Reality vs Fantasy?
I understand a lot, perhaps most people come here to explore fantasies. I wonder if anyone (models of members) sometimes seek a real experience they can't find elsewhere for any number of reasons? My preferences are for non fantastical or realistic experiences. How rare, uncommon, or common is this here?
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. very interesting question. I think that one of the beauties of this site is that fantasies can become real. The girl I'm talking to on camera is a real girl, not an imaginary one and she is really doing what I see her do. If I ask her to do something special, then she does it, thats real. I'm not just fantasising about it. What we talk about depends on the connection with the girl. Discussions with girls can be very real but I think it depends on your own honesty too. If you lie to the girl you will never feel the benefit of a real connection to explore your fantasy but if you are open and honest you will find the right girl to explore all your thoughts with and she will share hers....thats also real, not fantasy. Looking at something more basic, such as an exhibitionist fantasy, I've talked to girls who genuinely came to work here to satisfy that, to enjoy being admired.. they can make that real every day by just being here but I've also taken it a bit further for two girls. One I asked to order a delivery pizza and answer the door naked while i was watching on camera. The other I asked to go outside and take a picture of herself naked in the street where there was a danger that she might be seen, then send it to me. Both really enjoyed it and told me it is something they will never forget. I also tried the naked photo idea with another girl who had told me she liked exhibitionism but she faked it , using technology, which I could easily spot as the shadows were in the wrong directions. I guess that was a case of fantasy not being reality and it spoiled the relationship for me as she lied to me. So, in many ways I think fantasy can become reality here and often ,it already is but the more truthful you both are the better it will be. Girls have fantasies that are just as exciting as mens.
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All those are good points. Unless there are lies or fakery happening a lot of what occurs can be as real as anything in person. I was thinking more along the lines of basic facts and experiences. Let's say a model is trying on outfits. On one level the exchange between the member and the model may only go as deep as the overall perceptions both people have about the clothing. If both individuals have the right mindset it is possible for something as basic as this to become a very nuanced discussion and experience focused on many aspects of the reality of those real-time events. Whether either of them want to make it sensual, erotic, or sexual at any point is another subject matter. In the couple minutes I've spent writing this I have come up with at least 20 exploratory paths regarding one outfit and specific components of one outfit.
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The reality is that I wish I was dead.
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Why is that what you wish?
Everyone I know finds a way to hurt me or disappoint me or both. I can't even get any joy from this site. Quote
Here is some reality. Mia Wood is not a nice person.
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sirlickslot69
8/2/23 @ 8:50pm
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Everyone I know finds a way to hurt me or disappoint me or both. I can't even get any joy from this site.
If that's the case then you should probably go elsewhere for your enjoyment.. Or you're a masochist and enjoy bein' hurt and/or humiliated.. which is more than like;ly the case cuase you're always bitchin' bout somethin'
just my n-n-n-n-n 5 cents worth
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I understand a lot, perhaps most people come here to explore fantasies. I wonder if anyone (models of members) sometimes seek a real experience they can't find elsewhere for any number of reasons? My preferences are for non fantastical or realistic experiences. How rare, uncommon, or common is this here?
I expect any model doing solo shows is actively looking for a real dick and the suckers here think the models are actually interested. Quote
I expect any model doing solo shows is actively looking for a real dick and the suckers here think the models are actually interested. Quote
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sirlickslot69
5/2 @ 8:21am
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I expect any model doing solo shows is actively looking for a real dick and the suckers here think the models are actually interested.
I would beg to differ with you on this point. I have had long goin' online relationship with one particular performer here for over 6 years. When she went offline for a year for health/personal reasons we kept in contact thru her F4F Twitter ( now X) and SnapChat. She is back online now and we continue as we always have. We chat and discuss as any normal couple would in real life, NOT JUST ABOUT SEX. That is reality, the SEX part is part fantasy, part reality.
BTW whose to say we're all not a part of somebody else's "Fantasy":...
Just my n-n-n-n-n 5 cents worth...
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I expect any model doing solo shows is actively looking for a real dick and the suckers here think the models are actually interested.
You are of course 100% right these girls are here to work and provide a fantasy.
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You are of course 100% right these girls are here to work and provide a fantasy.
Fantasy, models and customers do not meet. Reality, models take vacations with customers as high dollar prostitutes.
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Fantasy, models and customers do not meet. Reality, models take vacations with customers as high dollar prostitutes.
So true. I see them pretending to actually like viewers, playing them for the credits. I see these viewers falling for it and tipping thousands a night. The ones that do the best here are those that really play the game well and get viewers to think they care. this is why us viewers should avoid the top models and visit the models that do not try to make viewers think they care for them. These are the ones just trying to make a living. The top models do it only for credits and to fill the void in their souls. That void will never be filled and their looks will dry up, leaving them with no way to make an income.
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So true. I see them pretending to actually like viewers, playing them for the credits. I see these viewers falling for it and tipping thousands a night. The ones that do the best here are those that really play the game well and get viewers to think they care. this is why us viewers should avoid the top models and visit the models that do not try to make viewers think they care for them. These are the ones just trying to make a living. The top models do it only for credits and to fill the void in their souls. That void will never be filled and their looks will dry up, leaving them with no way to make an income.
Anyone that falls in love with one of these sex workers is a fool. They get naked and have sex for money. That is not the kind of woman a quality man should want.
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alex2259
10/5 @ 4:47pm
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I love that question! For me mostly, it’s like being how realistic and as fantastical as I want my experience to be. It’s like I can watch a sexy reality show but also immerse myself into it whenever I want, and choose to be myself or another personae. It’s however realistic or fantastical as a member wants to be in my opinion anyway. Thanks for the interesting question! ALEX
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